Such a valuable article, especially for those who have come to accept the mentality that “change isn’t/must not be possible” just because it’s hard. There are plenty of living examples out there of people becoming the person they need to be to actualize their dreams, and you’re one of them!! I think people are scared to follow the route of “faking it until they make it” because they KNOW that they are faking it, so they’re technically lying to themselves. I’ve been the same way many times, and your story is proof that if you fake it long enough, at some point, you’re no longer faking it. It’s why I still follow you to this day and absorb your brilliant, insightful, and thought-provoking articles. I appreciate you Ayo!!